on wednesday i took mum to chiropodists. who is very pleased how mums toe is looking,the infection seems to have cleared up,my dressing it every day has obviously done the trick,although the toe with the gout in bad,is still very sore,she had to cut the uric acid crystals out of it again. but at least mum doesnt have to go until july to see her again,unless it gets worse.so one less thing to worry about. we got home around 1.30 and after quick lunch i decided to finally go for it,and get all the hanging baskets and containers out of greenhouse and into their places. all looking good now,growing away madly. and my house looks great lol. afraid today i bought another 30 busy lizzies,so planted up another 3 hanging baskets and 2 troughs with them.they can keep in greenhouse until they get bigger. ok but watering is fun lol takes me good hour every night,they soon dry out my front faces south so bakes in sun all day long. i will post pics soon.
on thursday C mums volunteer visitor turned up,as promised at 2pm. i made them both a cuppa,and left them too it. i had planned on going to wells,but as i am rather skint,i decided instead to do the front garden,cut the hedge and lawn, and clean up. which i did. when i went indoors,nearly 2 hours later i found C and mum still talking lol got on like house on fire. so much so that c is coming next thursday. both seem to have enjoyed themselves, and mum was really pleased; so am i. bless her,her days are long,and a visit from someone makes it go so much quicker. i wish my neibours,who keep promising to call and see mum,would instead of promises get off their backsides and come round. i am sure he said sarcastically it's a coincidence, but 1 who used to come round without fail every 2 weeks, hasnt been to see mum since last year. just around the time i found out it was MS i had. now no-one is so bloody stupid as to think they can catch it off me?? surely not?? does make me wonder though. and she does seem to keep well away when i see her outside. hmmmm oh well. thats up to her. as for the old boy i take xmas lunch to,who also used to come and see mum,he also seems to be keeping away. maybe i should have UNCLEAN painted on front door??? lol kidding. gritted teeth mind.
well,it's whitsun bank holiday. which means holiday makers. as usual the roads were busy today, we went to fakenham tescos mum to charity shop to see friend as usual. we went early,and were home just after 2pm. now i have said this before, but new readers may have missed it. if you ever come to north norfolk,and explore our narrow back roads, and indeed some of our main roads, you will find a lot of these roads do not have a white line down the centre of the road. many are very narrow. now,just so you all know. if a road doesn't have a white line down the centre,it DOES NOT mean you can take up all the bloody road, neither does your car magically shrink so please, bloody well pull over i realise your nice new clean car may get a bit dirty having to go up grass but i stop to let idiots like you get by. the next one you meet may not. hence the pile of broken mirror glass on main road through village. its narrow lol 2 cant get by each other but they try. of course if they came through at the speed limit which is 20mph maybe they could stop quicker? oh well,rant over have a lovely,safe,bank holiday. take care all
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Glad your mums visit with the volunteer went well, and it's good for both of you, as for your neighbours people can be a bit silly can't they? shame though as they have known you and your mum for a long time. Garden sounds like it's comming on a treat look forward to the photos, the weather isn't going to be that good this weekend no that will stop the visitors..lol Colchester will be chocka too.
Have a good weekend and try not to do too much(impossible I know..lol)
Regards to mum
Take care
Yasmin
xx
I am so happy your Mother & the volunteer got on so well. I found most people who came around when Dad was more "well," didn't once he was sick, then even less so when I was ill. It is them, not you. Certain characters like fairweathered visits, & no other. You are doing as much as you can for your Mother, & she can sense that. ~Mary
Pleased Mums feet are sorted once again hope the chiropodist made your Mums feet comfy ,I am so pleased to hear that your Mum and C got on so well ,how nice for both of them ,Im dissapointed you couldnt get away just for a change of scenery whilst C was there ,it would do you good ,and anyway I wanted you to tell us more about Wells ,I do agree with you about the way people drive along our country roads ,,love to you both ..Jan xx
It's Memorial Day weekend on this side of the pond. Most will not work on Monday and all banks and postal services will be closed. I'm so glad your mum found a friend and they got along so well. It will help you out too Mort...although I don't know what it's going to take to slow you down with all your gardening and such.
Hugs, Joyce
Morning Mort, glad that all went well with Mum's visitor yesterday. Fingers crossed that it will last. Glad that you got all the baskets out etc. You must use some energy getting everything done...not to mention the watering in the evening. Please take care you mustn't overdo things. Maybe you shouild be thinking of easier ways to be doing the garden in the longer term. I'm afraid I have not much energy and so can only use about three water can's full before I have to stop,,if I am not finished I come in and go out again in half an hour or so if the energy has come back !! Looking forwadr to seeing photos in due course. Mary and I are away for 5 days on Monday to Llandudno so will be looking at dozens of journals I have no doubt when we get back....Much Love Sybil x
Hi Mort,
I'm so glad your Mum enjoyed her visit with C. Sounds like it was good for all of you. Glad her feet are better, too.
Weird about your neighbors. I don't understand that?? People sure can be crazy sometimes.
Your roads sound scary to me! I'm used to very well marked roads here. If I were on a small road like that I'd be going to SLOW that it would make everyone behind me grouchy! LOL! So...if I ever make it to England maybe YOU can do the driving....deal??
Have a good Holiday weekend.
Love, Pam xoxox
Hey Mort, I am so glad that yoiur mums toes are doing better. It is to bad her gout toe does not heal. I have never known any one who had it but I have read that it is painful. Take a picture Mort of all your flowers. I would love to see them. I take it you have a problem with traffic there also. You tell em Mort!!! I know how it is when people start staying away when when people find out when someone is sick, but as you said MS is not contagious and when someone stops in for just a while, it would make your mum 's day shorter. Lucy
Lol Hey my fav other man.... Bee In Bonnett? (as In car bonnett?) That was quite funny for me!! lol. I don't drive so I am off the hook... Phew!! lol. I am delighted to hear that your mum has got some good company. Superb!. As for I, the so called nice neighbour?. You get after her the next time you see her In the street and give her a big kiss! lol. Well done on the plants. Get your feet up! ;-) Love Pam xx
Mort I am glad your Mum enjoyed having her visitor ~ it will do her the world of good to have someone to chat to ~ I know what you mean about those narrow roads we have them here and there are places for overtaking but some drivers choose to ignore them ~ I have had my wing mirror taken off twice by such drivers ~ you sound like you have been busy as usual I bet your garden looks great with all those flowers and baskets ~ you take care of yourself and lots of love to Mum ~ Ally x
Hello Mort, you jus cannot resist those bargain plants at Tesco can you ....lol. Bet your house does look a picture, can't wait to see your photo's. Glad you got all that off your chest about the driving etc.... lol.....we have the same problem here in Cornwall !! You be careful out there.
Pleased to hear your Mum's toes are doing well and she enjoyed some time with C, as for your neighbours.... poo bar humbug to them !
Take care, Luv Jaynee X
The gout problem sounds terrible. My Bro-in Law suffers from it, but it has not come to the point of Mum's yet , thank God.
We have some roads just as you describe over here also, Mort. Amazing the folks with no consideration. Think of no one but themselves.
Have a happy holiday! .............. Jack
Hey Mort. I enjoyrd your entry even the rant. lol i was not surprised to read that mum had a lovely visit . I thought she would when you first mentioned it. Please dont let it bother you that the neihbors are acting stupid. just keep being your own wonderful self. They must be miserable and selfish people . their loss anyway. you have many friends who love you and wish you and mum the best. I am sure you are an important person in my life way over here in alabama ! lol ever since i read it in your journal i have been telling folks how much petrol cost for you and boy do they shut up griping about our 3.75 dollar cost here! i DONT read or listen to the news reports so when I say I have afriend in England and he says so I become an instant authority on the subject lol . thank you for the birthday card, love june
Hi Mort..i noticed how close the cars pass each other when i was home..that's one good thing America has...wide open spaces...
have a good weekend..love you your mum...
Lyn
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Hey Mort,
Glad your mum enjoyed her visit. Maybe sometimes people just do not know how to react or what to say, like your neighbors. Unfortunately you may have to educate people on MS so they are more comfortable and can understand how to interact. Oh NO! No white lines, I think I better stay here. I could wind up missing a whole half of a car. Mort what is whitsun bank holiday?
Kelly
you are right hun,my best friend has MS,since she found out Im her only friend left,poor her lol,but its true people are ignorant and therefore assume that they can catch things or will have to go to the trouble of sympathising,when they are so damn busy,mind you they are not real friends then are they? I am having problems with hubbys family,well they dont like me because I have my own opinions,but lately theyve been relentless,they knew my dad was ill and picked the day of his results to slag me off to my hubby,nice people eh? So I am a TAD stressed to say the least but I shall battle on,mind you how I find the time Ill never know as according to them,I sleep with every man I meet,Im teaching my children how to be chavs and making my hubby unhappy,boy Im knackered ! Still I must go the milkman awaits,seeing as the butcher,the baker,the postman and the delivery man are late,ahh a womans work is never done,take care zoe xxxxxxxxxxxx
Back again... I just wanted to tell you I finally got that leak in the plumbing, and it is in no FUN place. hahahah LOL... Hope all is well with you and MUM!!!!
jack
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