Friday, 27 August 2010

7 years to thank you all for

Next month i shall have been on AOL for 7 years.this is to thank all the wonderful friends i have made over that period.
I had been wanting a computer for ages,i had a bush internet set top box that allowed me to browse the net using the TV but it wasn't a great,i finally ordered one from my mail order club,along with a desk. now we had just had oil fired central heating installed,the old open fire ripped out,and i had decorated the lounge and hall,papered and painted,2 new chairs,new carpet as the old one now had a damn great hole where the hearth used to i was busy.MS was still 2 initials for the future,although i did have health problems,and in a lot of pain.but i papered,painted,and the day the PC came me and a mate were laying the carpet.the man from the computer company was supposed to deliver it the next week,set it up and give me a demo.instead he unloaded all these boxes,said everything is colour coded just plug n play. quite.anyway,desk installed on new carpet,a mad dash to DIY store to buy a new swivel chair as the new ones i had ordered were far bigger than i thought,switch round of furniture,and i was ready to open the boxes. and it was easy to plug together.even found the on button.which i pressed,it loaded.and??now what. i knew NOTHING about easy guide.nothing.just a box and a screen.what did it do..i had an AOL internet CD-ROM,from some shop.inserted into drive,downloaded,and................internet.signed up for AOL,and i was away. well,as far as the internet went in those first few weeks it was playing backgammon online,odd email from companies i dealt with,but i was a complete novice.very frustrating.and then i found AOLs games had..............texas holdem poker. in those days it was on pogo,and i still play sometimes on there,but it is not as good as in the early days.more like a chatroom with first i played on my own againt the computer.then one night on my table appeared AngelaB.and you could talk to each other by typing into the dialogue box.and we got chatting."i'm no good at poker" said ange.i was a pretty decent player,having played in the past for real.oh lying lickle devil,lol.lets just say ive heard her use that phrase many times.somehow after that we always seemed to play a lot together.and i found my first,my longest running friend.and ange,you made me laugh,we rowed,we swore at each other,but my god we had fun.daughters laura and rachel used to moan at her because she used to laugh so much.ada and cissy ange???happy days.then one night,after AOL changed from pogo to its own poker tables which were much more "serious" i was on my own.angela was away,and i was i went into a chatroom.i had tried them before.and couldn't get the hang of fast,so many people all "talking"at once.bedlam.but that night 6 years ago i went into 50s romance, "overflow"room,when the main chatroom reached 48 or so,it opened.and that night there were 2 people in it,sue wicke and gem. 2 new friends.who explained about room1.and how there were some nice people used it,and to come back and visit.that was on news year eve.i went in the next night,met swaine,(sue) glen,alas now sadly dead,a nice man,jane,and so many more.over the coming weeks i got to know so many new people,still played poker,but often i was in chatroom.and i want to take this oppurtunity to thank some of you.sue garden,or sue g,any music you want sue could,the laughs we have had,been with ade now 3 years i suppose?? purplemist.Lyn,still a lovely friend. i cant play lady in red even now lyn.thanks for being there when i needed lovely jaynee,bless you many to list,tanis,or sunbeam as she is known in chatroom,Nina,whose blog got me into the wonderful world of journals,so many more.some lovely.some not so,some down right nasty ones lol. many sadly now gone from AOL.lonewolf,kraftmad,i look at my buddy list and think,yeah,we had some good times.always quizzes,jokes,laughter.many of my best friends on the net came from that chat room.room1. and then one night,4 years ago a dolfin swam in,in those days we all had profiles,mine had 200 or so pictures on it,and this strange person popped in,made some jokes,and left.helen,you have been so much more than just a friend to have been there when i have been at my lowest,when i was diagnosed with MS you helped me. and we still laugh on here nearly every night.thankyou are the best.xx.bernie,sadly we hardly ever talk now,where once we were so close.good friend,and a lovely person. wendy,whose daughter emma's tragic story you know,we have spent many hours chatting. so many names. all my friends. thank you all.
And then. JLAND.nina got me into blogging,she wrote a blog,and i thought i can try that.that story has been told, brought YET MORE friends. yasmin,guido,jan,jeannette,my second mom lucy,herrad,jack,so many more. again,thank you all.
And now facebook has brought even more,yearbook,tagged. names,some faces,some i talk to often,some i hardly know.but i still thank all help me keep going,keep sane.
Being a carer is NOT easy.being a carer with serious health problems much worse.but i manage.because when i log onto AOL,or blogspot,facebook,wherever,i know somewhere i will find one of you good people who will help take my mind off my worries.and i thank you ALL for that.
And now today,7 years down the line. i have someone in my life in the "real world".someone i care a lot for. thankyou for being you.xxxx
So,7 years of AOL.not all good,loss of profiles has meant the drastic decline of chatrooms,facebook etc has taken many more.the loss of Jland,so many people were hurt by that.the loss of our pictures.AOL has been my gateway to the internet for all those weeks,months, brought me all you. my friends online. thankyou,and take care all.



Bucko (a.k.a., Ken) said...

A great milestone :o)

Indigo said...

I had no idea you'd been online this long sweet friend. Congratulations on 7 years. I'm delighted to have had the opportunity to meet you. (Hugs)Indigo

jack69 said...

Thanks for the refresher Mort. It has been fun.
Yes there are good folk on here to talk with.

Your posts are always interesting.
Glad you still post every once in awhile, but hey, the real world is well, the REAL world. Good for you!

Penny said...

I miss AOL the way it used to be and JLand as well. Thought it was named after my son, John Scalzi, who got me blogging there. New blog now, new life, new home and the same old complaints. Your reverie brings back some fond memories, Mort. Blessings, Penny

Tanis said...

aah, Mort, although i dont know you 'in the flesh', your kind gentleness came across the ether and into my heart. Tc Friend xxx

Sue said...

I dunno Mort, first thing I read when I got up this morning and you had me in tears lol, you sure have a way with words, you are one great bloke,I too remember the good old days in the fifties room, such a laugh we used to have. We must all catch up soon, be a shame to let our friendships fade, thankyou anyway Mort for sharing your blog, and all the best wishes for your future with your lovely lady,and of course love to your mum who has a son to be so proud of, love you mort xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Sueg

ADB said...

Seven years is a good milestone, and you've certainly come a long way. Thank you for the mention.

Jan said...

What a great entry Mort ,where would we be with out all our friends in this little 'box' I am so pleased there is someone special in your life now ,and like so many others I value your friendship dear Mort ,give Mum a special bank holiday hug and kiss from me Jan xx

Lucy said...

Mort,you sound like me with the computer in the beginning. I am just so glad To have found Journals and then blogs. I still can't talk on messenger. I would not have missed Knowing you for the world. You have helped me so much, You understood my loss of Alan and you put me in my place when I tried to mother hen you to death. I am so glad you gave found the love of your life and I approve, as if it would matter with a lady like that. Your USA mom

Ally Lifewithally said...

Dear Mort did I ever tell you what an inspiration you have been to so many of us ~ I am glad to be able to call you my Friend ~ Hugs Ally x

Sybil said...

What a wonderful tribute Mort to all your many friends. It has been my pleaseure and I know all your friends too to have you as a friend and I hope that we all stick together for many a year to come.
God Bless,
Love Sybil x

Herrad said...

Hi Mort,

A good moving post thanks for sharing.

LYN said...

thnaks for sharing this Mort..u just bouhgt back many happy memories for me..I like you started with AOL chat rooms..then message boards and of course good old J land...i can remember when it was all about the screenames!! LOL

Yasmin said...

I remember when we met in AOL chatroom and you just started your I used to like the pub quizzes but found the chatrooms abit odd too much drama for me sighs.

It'll be four years for me next month gosh lookingat all those blogs for weeks wonerding if I dare and I'm so glad I did I met you and all the other fabulous members that was Jland imagine if you could get us all in a room

Regards to mum

Take care

Lisa said...

Mort, Congrays on the milestone !!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxx Lisa